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Toni Tone and Taiwo: The Reason Why Men AVOID Confident Women

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Toni Tone and Taiwo Ogebule share the transformative journey that has redefined their approach to love and relationships.Through overcoming personal challenges, cultural pressures, and managing a long-distance romance, they reveal how a foundation of trust, mutual respect, and deep emotional connection has kept their bond strong.

Together, they challenge conventional narratives around attachment, masculinity, and "struggle love," showing how self-discovery and resilience create a partnership that goes beyond expectations.

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00:00 Introduction to the Episode

03:04 Dating Culture Differences: USA vs. UK

05:15 Toni and Taiwo’s Relationship Histories

06:18 How Relationships Can Impact Attachment Styles

11:06 How Toni and Taiwo Met: Their Love Story

16:22 Toni’s Viral Tweet After Their First Call

16:53 Understanding Demisexuality: What Does It Mean?

18:23 Tips for Maintaining a Long-Distance Relationship

20:46 Managing Conflict Across Borders: Toni and Taiwo’s Approach

25:49 The Biggest Misconceptions About Our Relationship

29:51 What Makes a “Good Man” in Modern Dating?

30:55 Shopify Ad

31:54 Huel Ad

33:25 What Is Gut Instinct and Why It’s Important in Love

35:37 Breaking Down “Struggle Love” and Its Impact

38:51 Can a Strong Woman Really Intimidate Men?

49:00 Our Most Memorable Conversations Together

54:24 Key Takeaways from Paul

56:59 Tinder Ad