Beyond the Rut Podcast

Conquering Mimetic Traps in Fatherhood with Jay Twining

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Do you ever feel like you're drowning in societal pressures to be the perfect dad? Have you tried following outdated advice and still feel disconnected from your children? 

It's time to break free from the mimetic traps and discover the true transformative power of being a positive father figure. Join us in this episode and learn effective strategies to forge meaningful relationships with your children, overcome societal expectations, and become the engaged and attentive father you've always wanted to be.

In this episode, you will be able to:

  • Appreciate the transformative power of an inspiring father figure and how it enhances family dynamics.
  • Tackle mimetic traps head-on and resist common misconceptions about what it means to be a father.
  • Cultivate meaningful relationships with your children, fostering a lifelong bond.
  • Embrace your identity as a father by transcending societal norms and expectations.
  • Ensure you are an engaged and attentive presence in your children's lives, guiding them on their journey.

My special guest is Jay Twining

Introducing Jay Twining, a devoted father and husband who understands the importance of fatherhood in today's world. As the creator and host of the YouTube show Feel Good Fatherhood, Jay offers support, inspiration, and practical advice to fathers facing the challenges of parenthood. Drawing from his background in video game development and teaching, Jay highlights the crucial role fathers play in the lives of their children and families. By sharing his own journey of overcoming mimetic traps and societal pressures, Jay empowers fathers to become the best version of themselves for the sake of their loved ones.

The key moments in this episode are:
00:00:00 - Introduction, 

00:06:44 - The Importance of Fatherhood, 

00:10:30 - Finding Purpose in Fatherhood, 

00:13:11 - Impact of Fatherlessness, 

00:16:49 - Mimetic Traps, 

00:14:31 - The Importance of Fatherhood, 

00:19:37 - Masculinity and De-escalation, 

00:25:38 - Mimetic Traps, 

00:28:56 - Fatherhood and Unconscious Questions, 

00:29:47 - Understanding Mimetic Traps in Fatherhood, 

00:31:13 - Teaching Attention to Detail, 

00:34:21 - Breaking the Locker Room Talk Mimetic Trap, 

00:35:19 - Embracing the Weird, 

00:39:18 - Continue Being Awesome, 

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