How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

The Speed Dating Move that Drives Women Wild: Why Vulnerability Wins Every Time (Featuring Kavita Ajwani)


Published: 19 June 2025 at 21:19 Europe/London

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Episode notes

You struggle to connect with women, right? What if you could confidently walk into a crowded room and get numbers from women who find you utterly charming? You actually can—when you get great at speed dating! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes speed dating expert Kavita Ajwani. As a woman, Kavita—founder of Dashing Date—knows what women really want from men. You’re about to learn why vulnerability, not pickup tactics, is your secret weapon for attracting women.

Episode Highlights Include:

02:21: Why Vulnerability is Your Most Underrated Dating Superpower

06:45: The Question that Takes Dates from Small Talk to Deep Connection

12:52: The One Topic that Instantly Helps Women Feel Safe

17:25: How Being a “Nerd” Actually Attracts Women

24:34: Your Speed Dating Masterclass: 3 Moves that Get You Matches and Dates

42:37: How Kavita’s Coaching Transforms Men’s Love Lives

LEARN MORE ABOUT KAVITA AJWANI AND HER COACHING:
Follow @‌DashingDate on Instagram

GET KAVITA’S “TO BE DESIRED” MASTERCLASS FOR FREE:
DM “Connell” to @‌DashingDate on Instagram

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