The Diary Of A CEO by Steven Bartlett

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From sexless to sizzling, Susan Bratton shares the sexual secrets to ignite intimacy and make it last

Susan Bratton is a renowned relationship and intimacy expert. She is the CEO of ‘The 20’ and ‘Personal Life Media’ and the bestselling author of 34 books including, ‘Relationship Magic’, ‘Revive Her Drive’, and ‘Sexual Soulmates: The Six Essentials for Connected Sex’.

In this conversation, Susan and Steven discuss topics such as, how to fix a sexless marriage, how cheating can save your sex life, the best way to last longer in bed, and how to get unlimited orgasms.

00:00 Intro

02:04 What Do You Do and Why Do You Do It?

02:36 Advice for Someone Struggling With Their Sex Life

04:57 Common Questions From Women

05:35 Common Questions From Men

06:27 Quality vs. Quantity

06:41 Susan's Journey to Becoming a Sexpert

08:35 Lessons Learned From Sexual Trauma

09:52 What Is Dissociation?

12:38 Susan’s Personal Issues With Sex Life

15:49 Are You Giving Mercy Sex?

17:34 How Did You Fix Your Trauma?

20:34 Identifying Problems in a Relationship

21:41 Sex Injustice and Trauma

24:15 Affair in Susan's Marriage

28:46 Non-Monogamy

31:20 How to Talk About Sex With Your Partner

34:02 How Did You Become Polyamorous?

36:20 First Audience Question

42:07 Body Image Issues

43:01 Reconnecting With Your Partner: Two Techniques

46:47 Comparisons With Other People

48:53 Removing Pressure Around Sex

50:30 Erotic Playdates

54:25 Dealing With a Partner Who Mocks Sexual Fantasies

57:04 Managing Opposite Sex Communication in Relationships

59:23 Safety + Novelty = Desire

01:01:53 Early Ejaculation

01:07:26 What’s the Most Effective Sex Toy?

01:09:36 The Pulse Queen

01:10:11 The Vibe

01:13:45 Types of Orgasms

01:19:23 Third Audience Question

01:20:13 How to Have an Expanded Orgasm With a Partner

01:20:33 Women’s Favorite Sex Toy

01:22:17 The Pleasure Protocol

01:25:55 Fourth Audience Question

01:27:35 Ads

01:28:40 Menopause vs. Libido

01:29:12 Libido, Desire, and Arousal

01:29:59 Testosterone Levels and Libido Decrease

01:31:10 When Sex Becomes Routine

01:35:37 Pornography and Masturbation

01:40:05 STI Testing

01:42:35 Knowing When to Walk Away From a Partner

01:47:25 Question From the Previous Guest

01:48:11 Question for Steven

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