We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson

Oti and Marius: Strictly’s Hidden Demands on Marriage - The True Struggle

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In this episode, dance power couple Oti Mabuse and Marius Iepure sit down for their first joint interview.

Together, they share the highs and lows of their relationship, revealing how hey transitioned from dance partners to life partners, and navigated the challenges following their daughter’s premature birth.

Oti opens up about how her obsession with winning Strictly strained their marriage and how Marius supported her during her lowest moment as a professional dancer.

Join Paul for an inspiring conversation about resilience, unwavering support, and the vital importance of showing up for one another in life’s toughest moments.

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Sections:

00:00 - Introduction

02:17 - Why Share Your Private Life Now?

04:48 - How Childhood Lessons Shape Your Life Today

13:25 - Building Strong Connections Despite Differences

17:49 - How Dance Brings People Together

21:35 - The Global Impact of Afrobeats and Dance

24:58 - Redefining Masculinity in African Culture

28:12 - Navigating Power Dynamics in Modern Relationships

32:44 - Why Failure and Rejection Are Essential for Growth

36:10 - How Setting Boundaries Transforms Your Life

40:23 - Does Fame Change Who You Are?

44:56 - The Pressures of Being a Role Model

49:12 - How to Stay True to Yourself in a Demanding World

53:39 - Your Path to Self-Acceptance and Confidence

58:27 - Why Mental Health Should Be a Priority

01:02:14 - How Vulnerability Can Empower You

01:07:06 - Living Authentically in a Digital Age

01:11:35 - Mastering How to Handle Criticism

01:16:02 - How to Find Inner Peace in a Busy World

01:20:47 - Discovering Your Life's Purpose

01:25:33 - Overcoming The Fear Of Being Judged

01:29:50 - How to Become Your Best Self