Why Do Men Podcast
By Tom Stroud x I.A.M Podcasts
Exploring the behaviours that shape our relationships, with ourselves and with others 💬
‘Why Do I…?’ is a podcast about the behaviours and patterns that show up in our relationships, and what happens when we start to notice them.
Hosted by Tom Stroud, the series follows on from Why Do Men, which explored male behaviour in dating and relationships. This season broadens the lens, moving away from expert advice around specific behaviours like ghosting and jealousy towards lived experience across all kinds of relationships.
‘Why Do I…?’ is a podcast about the behaviours and patterns that show up in our relationships, and what happens when we start to notice them.
Hosted by Tom Stroud, the series follows on from Why Do Men, which explored male behaviour in dating and relationships. This season broadens the lens, moving away from expert advice around specific behaviours like ghosting and jealousy towards lived experience across all kinds of relationships.
Latest episode
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Why Do We Stay in Relationships That Are Killing Us? Tom's Reflection
We're told staying is loyalty. So we hold on, hoping things will improve. Tell ourselves "it's not that bad." But after my full conversation with Dr. Ami… -
Why Do I Feel So Insecure In My Relationships...? Dr. Amir Levine
Dr. Amir Levine is a psychiatrist, neuroscientist, and bestselling author of Attached - the book that became the internet's go-to guide for understanding relationships. His new book Secure picks up where it left off. -
Tom's Reflection: Why Do We Fear Getting Older?
We’re told getting older means losing value.So we chase youth like it can save us.Tell ourselves we’re “still young.”But after my full conversation with Poorna Bell, I’ve been reflecting on something de… -
Why Do I Fear Ageing...? With Poorna Bell
We're told that aging is something to dread. That it means slowing down. Becoming invisible. Losing your edge.So instead… we obsess over looking younger. We buy the creams. We scroll past women o… -
Tom's Reflection: Why Am I Craving Connection...?
We’re told needing people is weak.So we handle everything on our own.Tell ourselves we’re “fine”.But I’ve realised somet… -
Tom’s Reflection: I Was Proud Of Never Getting Angry… Until I Realised This
We’re told anger is a bad thing.So a lot of us just… stop feeling it.Or at least, we think we do.After my conversation with -
Why Do I Repress My Anger...? With Sam Parker
We’re taught that anger is something to avoid.That it’s dangerous.Unattractive.Something that pushes people awa… -
Tom's Reflection: I Used Sex As A Way To Validate Myself
We grow up believing that a good relationship means good sex.That if you’re having enough of it…If the chemistry is there…If the spark hasn’… -
Why Do I Avoid Intimacy With My Partner…? Guest Expert - Henika Patel
We grow up believing connection should just… happen.That if you love someone enoughIf the relationship is right enoughIf you’re close enough…That spark should stay the same forever.But… -
Tom's Reflection: Im Scared To Live The Same Life As My Dad...
After my conversation with Julius Cowdrey about parental behaviour and generational patterns, something stayed with me long after the microphones were turned off…What happens when you realise p…