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Ep 13: Rewriting Your Story: Creating the Future You Desire

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Unlock the potential of your best tomorrow by redefining the stories you tell yourself today. I’m discussing the transformative concept of the future self. Discover how the narratives we create shape our reality and learn practical strategies to break free from self-limiting beliefs. Tune in to explore the four-stage approach to becoming the best version of yourself, one intentional step at a time. Whether you want to boost your confidence, enhance your leadership skills, or simply find more joy in your daily life, this episode holds the keys to your personal evolution.


Here are the Highlights:

01:01 Self-narratives shape and constrain our potential.

04:41 Brain distorts feedback to fit existing self-beliefs.

07:11 Beliefs impact relationships and perceived opportunities.

12:05 Redefine stories, and create empowering future selves.

15:18 Change happens gradually, then suddenly, with persistence.

19:35 Gain clarity, set goals, and create action steps.

22:38 Reprogram thinking, align actions, start small, build.

23:52 Strategic leaders set boundaries, prioritise, visualise, and act.


Meet your host Jo Cowlin

Jo Cowlin keeps it real.

Some people might like to call her ‘a motivational people development expert’ but Jo would rather you didn’t.

Jo is a no-nonsense, straight-talking northerner

She is also a transformational coach, facilitator and game changer. She has a passion for results and is dedicated to helping leaders realise their aspirations without compromising their wellbeing.

She dares individuals to be different by eliminating corporate BS, life coaching, and hand-holding, and instead encourages breaking through barriers to gain clarity and step into personal power for a life without limits. 

Passionate about learning and growth, she is dedicated to delivering results, drawing from her own experiences of overcoming corporate burnout, overwhelm, and a lack of direction. She turned this all around, and created a way forward that brought the balance that she needed to thrive no matter what life threw at her. Resilience and a proactive approach to mental wellbeing is at the core of all of her work which is predominantly aimed at helping leaders and their teams refocus, regroup and rapidly adjust to change. With a background in pharmaceutical leadership and expertise across various sectors, she offers coaching and leadership programs tailored to individual and organisational needs.

When Jo isn’t transforming company cultures, you’ll find her managing her 3 teenage girls’ busy social calendars. She’s a dab hand in the kitchen and true to form, loves to keep her food real. And if she isn’t doing either of those you will find her out in nature walking her dog or lifting a barbell in the gym. 


Find out more about Jo here: https://jocowlin.com/

Connect with Jo: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocowlin/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jo-cowlin/


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