On Purpose with Jay Shetty

Jordan Peterson: 5 Ways to Shift Envy into Growth & How to Recognize and Pursue Your True Calling

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What triggers envy for you?

How do you turn envy into action?

Today, in this eye-opening episode, Jay Jay sits down with the legendary Dr. Jordan B. Peterson, a psychologist, educator, and bestselling author. This conversation has been in the making for years, and it’s packed with deep insights on human development, identity, and how ancient wisdom ties into today’s challenges.

One of the standout moments is when Jordan talks about his upcoming book, We Who Wrestle With God. He takes listeners through the timeless stories of the Old Testament, explaining how they provide profound lessons on values, integrity, and personal growth. He also talks about the importance of always telling the truth and viewing life as an exploration of what’s possible. 

Jay and Jordan discuss how easy it is for people to get trapped in “false adventures”—chasing immediate gratification or quick fixes that ultimately don’t fulfill. Jordan reminds us that real growth involves shedding old parts of ourselves to move forward and align with bigger, long-term goals.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Build a Life of Integrity

How to Turn Failure into Learning Opportunities

How to Stay True to Long-Term Goals

How to Practice Gratitude Daily

How to Recognize and Avoid Short-Sighted Decisions

How to Align Your Actions with Your Purpose

How to Balance Ambition and Ethical Living

This conversation highlights the power of facing challenges, learning from experiences, and staying aligned with long-term goals.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

  • 00:00 Intro

  • 1:24 How Technology Exacerbates Manipulation

  • 08::13 Escaping A Limited Reality

  • 09:41 Addressing Problems At The Root

  • 13:55 The Effectiveness of Psychotherapy on Psychopaths

  • 18:17 The Mindset of Predatory Psychopaths

  • 21:03 Tips for Women to Protect Themselves from Manipulative People

  • 24:16 PTSD And Its Impact 

  • 27:17 How Stories Shape Our Identity

  • 37:06 Why Self-Consciousness Leads to Misery

  • 40:03 The Difference Between Seeing and Thinking

  • 47:54 The Importance of Long-Term Vision

  • 52:56 The Dangers of Envy

  • 55:28 Strategies to Overcome Envy

  • 59:57 The Role of Pride and Arrogance in Personal Growth

  • 1:05:14 The Art of Understanding Through Listening

  • 1:09:04 Avoiding the Weaponization of Truth

  • 1:10:45 How Short-Term Gratification Derails Progress

  • 01:13:11 Setting Standards With Encouragement 

  • 01:16:31 Sources Of Hope Today

  • 01:26:02 Jordan On Final 5

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