Dadvengers
Dadvengers #38 Ian Russell
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*** Trigger Warning - In this episode we discuss topics that may be triggering for some listeners, namely suicide and child loss. If you're affected by any of the topics in this episode you can find support here***
Ian Russell is a producer and director in television, working on TV dramas, royal weddings and some of the biggest sporting events in the world. He is also an inspirational father and campaigner for online safety.
After growing up in an idyllic childhood, with a close family and a strong, present father, Ian always wanted to be a dad.
He went on to have three daughters and describes fatherhood as the biggest job in the world, that comes without a manual! Ian loves being a dad and was recreating the idyllic life he'd experienced for his own family, until tragedy struck.
Ian's daughter Molly sadly took her own life at just 14 years of age, after struggling with seeing extremely graphic unregulated content on social media. Ian and his family fought to have a full inquest into Molly's death that has led to campaigns around online safety and regulations for all users. But, especially those most vulnerable - our children. They've also started a charity to support young people struggling with online content and worked with legislators to introduce the UK's first online safety bill.
Ian is an inspirational father and his strength in sharing Molly's story is awe-inspiring. We are so grateful to Ian for joining us 💙
Time Codes
2:08 - "Life was amazing for us... but at the time you think it is just normal!" - Ian shares his brilliant childhood on the Sussex Downs.
4:30 - "There was a lovely, caring but also letting you stand on your own two feet attitude" - Ian's relationship with his dad.
7:18 - "It is the biggest job in the world and you don't get a manual to find out how to do it!" - Ian on becoming a father.
13:48 - "There was a part of my life that existed before Molly’s death and the part after" - Ian shares the impact of the loss of his daughter, Molly.
17:40 - "She was one of the most caring people I had ever known" - Ian tells us about Molly.
19:48 - "I had no doubt really quickly that social media helped kill Molly" - How Ian discovered the impact social media had on Molly.
32:10 - "If you discover something that is dangerous you try to do something about it." - Why Ian is channelling his loss into making changes around social media.
36:40 - "We’re a tiny charity but we have a big voice which is heard by many" - Ian on the Molly Rose Foundation and the crucial work they're doing.
40:45 - "An expert consultant psychiatrist… he said I can’t imagine what it would have done to a 14 year old" - How the images Molly saw impacted professionals at her inquest.
45:33 - "Some of the content Molly saw over 5 years ago is still available… they haven’t removed it" - Social media still hasn't learnt from what happened to Molly.
47:13 - "Molly wrote… "I need you to live long, stay strong, I will see you in a little while when you’re old and gray"… it helps you find a way to keep going." - Molly's message to Ian keeps him finding a way forward.
53:10 – Ian’s dad superpower.
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