The Thinking Mind Podcast
E177 | Why You Must Deal With Self-Hate
Published: 4 June 2026 at 18:00 Europe/London
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Episode notes
In this episode, Alex explores self-esteem, self-hate and self-criticism, not just as emotional issues, but as forces that can shape the practical quality of a person’s life.
He discusses how poor self-esteem can affect relationships, work, ambition, risk-taking and the ability to build a life that feels authentic. Alex also examines how people can develop a defensive “neurotic self” in response to fear, shame, anxiety or the stresses of life.
Finally, he looks at what healthier self-esteem might involve: a balanced relationship with yourself built on both compassion and challenge.
Presented by Dr. Alex Curmi. Dr. Alex is a consultant psychiatrist and a UKCP registered psychotherapist in-training.
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